Nothing is permanent!

We all look for change in our lives. There are times when we say to our selves," i badly need a change right now". Infact instead of working out on what is bothering us, we actually work on changing things for us.
And then there are times when we even stoop down to changing ourselves. We change the way we look, the way we behave, the way we do things....we change so much that we turn out to be completely different persons.

As much as we want change, there are also times when we really hope things would be the same or get back to being how they were. Like on your first day of college and your all alone, you really hope you were back in school with all your friends. Or after a break up with your love, you really hope you would just have been friends. when you've done a terrible mistake and you know, you wish you could go back in time.

But lets face it, its only when we want or imagine things should be and they are not that we expect some change. but whether we want it or not, nothing in life is permanent. you might have had the best of friends in school, and thought you'd be just like that forever. but eventually you have to find your own ways. the way you would have felt when you were told how beautiful you look, must have made you feel that you were made for each other.But everybody's priorities change one day.  You made a mistake and thought your parents would never forgive you. they are your parents, they have to forgive you, its their job. hehe!

Sooner or later we have to accept these facts of life. We cannot change things when we want, they change only when its the right time to change or when we are ready. at the same time, things are not permanent either, they WILL change. we just need to live our lives, as it is layed in front of us. I guess accepting this will help us be a lot happier.